How Can You Tell if a Man is Truly in Love With You?
Some men can be so real, you hardly can fathom their true intentions. Can
you tell if a man is really in love with you no matter how genuine he
appears? Let's find out.
Here is Emily's experience:
To tell if a man really loves you, it is imperative to know whether men
feel love or not.
 When a man is in love with a woman but scared, he won't be able to summon enough courage to accost her. Instead, there are weird signs he'll flag off to show he's in love with her without necessarily saying it. This means he is a secret lover or an admirer.
 On this very day, seated very close to this roaring seashore
listening to my favourite music, suddenly, I felt this soft touch on my
shoulders. When I turned to enquire who, it was this handsome man;
Jack. Â
Jack asked, " what are you doing seated all alone just listening to
music? I could be your beach date if you want." I gave an admitting smile
and we got talking. He appeared so responsible and God-fearing.
 Jack seems nice and very consistent with his cares and calls ever
since the beach date. He did many things a man would do if he really loved
you. Any woman could feel safe and secure with him. Beyond doubts, I
was convinced he was the perfect match. And after a few months, we got
married.
 Unfortunately, all those lovely attributes were him putting on an
act. He not only betrayed my trust too soon, but he also did it with
impunity. I could never have thought that he had a penchant for such
horrible attitudes. Â
 Have you been faced with a similar
relationship crisis
as Emily? Her story clearly depicts that cares, gifts and attentions do
not necessarily equal true love. How then can a lady tell if a love is
true regardless of how sweet and nice a man appears? How can you know if a
man's acts of love are borne out of genuine intention?
  Now, let me show you a few tweaks and tricks that will
reveal that hidden monster behind that deceptive care and love. No matter
how appealing a man is, if he is fake, he won't be willing to do these 10
things. Even if he does, it won't be for long. Â
Before we continue, it is pertinent we find out if guys actually feel
love. This will reveal some vital clues about the masculine love
life.Â
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Do Guys Actually Feel Love
Do men have the capacity to love and feel loved?Â
As opposed to what many heartbroken girls believe, men are as lovely and
lovable as women.Â
 Due to the cognitive nature of men, many women think men are
heartless and incapable of feeling, giving and receiving love. For this
reason, many young girls fear investing their emotions in any
type of long-term relationship
with any man. Â Â
 In short, guys feel as much love as ladies. They only express
theirs in totally different ways, mostly in logically, unromantic ways. For example, to a man, buying cars, building big houses and giving a woman a lot of money, are all
there is to love. This does not mean he doesn't feel anything. Most men
feel these are the things that make women happy. Â
 It is because men are as affectionate as women, that you can see
some signs that a man is slowly falling for a woman. Â
How To Tell If a Man Is Really in Love With You
We have already established that men are Affectionate just like women. The only difference is, they are not as spontaneous as women.Â
In general, men take time to fall genuinely in love. But when they do,
they love truly, unlike women who are always open to feeling and giving
love almost without restraint. Â Â
 Having known that men are not some stones out there with no
feelings, how then can a woman tell if a man truly loves or lust her?
These 10 true love recipes got you covered. Â
- He Seeks Improvement/ Change
  "A Change," especially a positive one is one of life's
virtue that is very hard to cultivate. Someone says,
" negative attitudes are easy to form but difficult to live with. While
positive ones are difficult to form but easy to live with."
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With this in mind, it is logical to reason that anyone who is trying to
change for the best is going through some mental and emotional strain just
to make you happy.
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- He Doesn't Take time To Come Around
 Though the example above was a case of the girl faking her love for
my friend, even more women are victims. Â Â
 When a man is deeply in love with you,
to make him happy whenever he gets upset
shouldn't be tedious. His anger should only last for a while. This is
another smart way to tell if a man really loves you.Â
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- You Are His Priority
Generally, it is what we value that we protect and care for the most.
 How do you know you are at the top of a man's priority list? It is
not in the cars he buys you, houses he builds for you or monies he gives
to you. It is in his genuine interest to see you achieve all-round
success. Â For example, a man who deeply cares for you will detest
the idea of
premarital sex
because he knows unwanted pregnancy could ruin you. He would cancel all
his appointment to attend to you especially in serious matters or send
someone to provide aids when he's not around. He would care about your
life's dreams more than he cares about sex.
- He Respects You
 How do you know a man respects you?  First, he values your
opinion and yields to your advice when necessary. Second, he communicates
his displeasure in a more mature and respectful manner instead of yelling
and controlling. Third, he introduces you to some important people in his
life such as parents, siblings, friends and so on. And finally, he will
never hit you if he respects you. He will never be ashamed of you.
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- He Tries To Fix a Relationship
 Leaders are problem solvers, meaning that if he relaxes whenever
there is a challenge that is threatening the health of the relationship,
he doesn't love you. Any man who loves a woman would do everything to
protect the institution of relationship that bonds them together. This
means, for instance when effective communication is lacking, a man who
truly loves a woman should devise a means to solve the problem.
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- He Not Only Has Sexual Interests In You
On the other hand, if for example, the girl is the one pushing and
disturbing for sex, beyond having sex with her, a genuine man would always
let her know that he cares more about a love-driven relationship and
not that based on sexual fantasies.Â
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- He Lets You Know His Weaknesses/ Strengths
  It is easier for people to communicate their strength as it
resonates well with people. After all, everyone likes to reveal his or her
charms and positive tendencies. But to reveal that aspect of ourselves
that even we don't like about ourselves has to be done on the platform of
sincere affection. Â If a man can tell you his weaknesses especially
when you didn't ask, it in a way suggests his honesty and
genuineness.
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- He Introduces You To Special People In His Life
  But if he lusts you, he will never introduce you to special
people in his life. Whenever you demand to see these people, he'll make up
some flimsy excuses. His inability to introduce you is another way to tell
a man is not in love with you. Â
- He Shows Interest In The Future With You
 To tell if a man really loves you or not, recall when last he
communicates about your life's ambition. How motivational is he and what
kind of advice does he proffer? Is he changing you for good? Has he
ever told you never to live him that he wants to marry you? If not, it's
time to turn off that switch and turn it on to something else that really
matters. That relationship won't get you anywhere. Â
- He's Not Misleading
  For example, If you get into a fight with another woman over
an issue that is apparently your fault, a man who loves you may not yell
at you in public. He will instead, take you home, and let you know you are
in the wrong. Unfortunately, a blind woman will think he's taking sides
and he doesn't love her. No! He loves you, but you don't love yourself.
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 True Love is always pure, genuine, unadulterated, giving, and
enduring. It is actions backed by genuine intentions. True Love is
equality. It is pointing out and encouraging strengths. It is also, not
being judgmental about one's weaknesses.
Signs To Tell a Man Is In Love With You But Scared
 How do you know someone is secretly in love with you? What are the signs a man loves you secretly? When a man is in love with a woman but scared, he won't be able to summon enough courage to accost her. Instead, there are weird signs he'll flag off to show he's in love with her without necessarily saying it. This means he is a secret lover or an admirer.
  It is not only women that are known to hide their feelings
and act like they don't feel a thing. Most men who have not grown enough
guts also do. Â
 Even though society perceives it as ignoble for a woman to approach
a man, a smart woman can notice a man's affection for her and make herself
approachable until he spills his heart out.Â
  How then do you know if a guy loves you but is hiding it?
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- He'll want to befriend your siblings or friends just to get close to you
- Sometimes he gets shy when your eyes cross paths and quickly winks off.
- If he is your friend, he'll begin to show unusual care. He'll always call, text, buy gifts or give unusual attention.
- He will always be jealous of other guys around you. When you talk about or admire another guy, his mood will change.
Signs To Tell An Older Man Is Falling In Love With You
 Who says old men can't love young girls? Sometimes, it can be the most peaceful and perfect combination. Â
 Old men are sweethearts. You stand to gain a lot in your
relationship with an old man, but only if your intentions are genuine. Â Â
 If dating an old man is your thing, here are a few signals to tell
that an old man is helplessly in love with you. Â
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- Â First, when he's around you, does he ack like a youth who has got swags?Â
- Does he always want a date with you?Â
- Does he care about your emotional, physical and material well-being?Â
- Does he act jealously when he sees you with younger guys?Â
These are sure signs he likes you and wants to be the man in your life.
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How To Tell He Loves You By His Kiss
Can you tell a guy loves you by kissing? Of course. Â Kissing can reveal so much that the eyes can't see in a lifetime. You can tell a guy truly loves you by kissing but you have to be the sensitive one in the process.Â
  A love-driven kiss is one with loads of gentility, eye
contact and occasional disconnection. On the other hand, a man who solely
has an interest in sex will just want to quickly hop into sex with you. He
will have absolutely no regard for your body. Â Â
 The pitfall of using kissing to decide a man's love for you is that
it may not be very effective. Moreover, it can lead to premarital sex.
 Generally, a man who truly loves you will abhor anything sexual
including kissing. It's a mistake to look out for signs that a guy loves
you in bed while making love to you. Instead, check his temperance level
for sex. Â
Body Language Signs To Tell a Man Is Falling In Love With You
How does a man act when he's falling in love? how else can you tell a man is in love through his body language? Â
 Anyone in love, both men and women first communicate it through
body language. A smart person can easily pick these love signals before
reality strikes. Not just that, even a player's motives can be picked
through body language as well. But in this section, I want to show you how
to know a man loves a woman through his body language.
  The first body sign a man is in love is he winks at you at
intervals and quickly disconnects, as opposed to a player's wink that
hardly disconnects. Second, he feels happy whenever you are around even if
he was angry before you arrive. Third, he's mindful of the way he talks,
laughs and acts around you. Finally, he tries to find out the things that
appeal to you because he wants to make you happy.
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What Does It Mean When a Guy Says He Lusts You?
When a guy says he lust you, it's Crystal clear. It is what it is. It means he is not in love with you. He is in lust with you. A man who tells you he is in lust with you is simply saying he wants you two to be friends with benefits and nothing more. ÂHow Do Guys Express Their Love?
 Men are essentially logical thinkers, so don't expect a man to express his love like a typical emotional woman would. For this reason, a man's true love may not be that obvious. For instance, when a man foots the bills, buys you a car, builds you a house and afford whatever money can afford, that's it. To, him, love is expressed. This is because men define love through the filter of their own dictionary. Â
 To be able to express love satisfactorily, a man has to consult a
women's emotional dictionary to define love the way it makes meaning to a
woman. This way, a woman can tell a man is really in love with her. Â
Additionally, expressing love from the standpoint of a woman's emotional
filters, makes a man feel connected to a woman. Â
Do Guys Act Weird When They Fall In Love
How men fall in love is psychology that should be learned by all women. For one reason, it is very difficult to tell since caring and provision of needs are not necessarily a sign of true love. A sex driven man can buy you the whole world. Â Â
 One way to tell if a man is in love with you is in his weird
attitude. This is revealed in his attitude. For instance, he begins to
help you carry your handbag, opens up the car door for you, cooks for you,
does your laundry, introduces you to people that matter and always
seeks your attention. These are some weird things most men won't do. Play
guys can hardly do all these, especially in public. In extreme cases, a
love-struck man can get so emotional that he tear up because of the hurt
you probably caused him.
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