YOUNG WOMEN DATING OLDER MEN
People date for a
variety of reasons. Some for the fun, some for money, some for popularity or
class. But the commonest reason people date is to find a suitable lifelong
marriage partner.
Whether you are
dating an older man in your 20’s, 30’s or 40’s, probably for marriage or any
other genuine reason, then this article is for you.
I have put together
tips and some pieces of advice of dating older men that can help you maximize the opportunity,
as well as some advantages and disadvantages to help you trade with caution.
TIPS ON DATING OLDER MEN
Younger women
dating older men need to have the complete set of knowledge that is necessary.
To date an older man requires more than is needed to date a young man.
A few tips below
will perform all the magic;
1. OLDER
MEN NEED OLD AGE CAREGIVERS
Girls dating older
men need to understand that their emotions may constraint them to get married to these old men. When
marriage becomes the case, then be sure to master the art of caregiving because many old men for the most part marry young girls to nurse them in old
age. If you are not ready for this, then don’t date him for marriage or any
serious relationship. Instead, date him for mentorship, assistance, or any other
better reason.
2.
OLDER
MEN ARE SWEETHEARTS
One thing younger
men are lacking by the second is love, and care. Lavish expenditure is what an old man can happily do for a young girl who makes him feel this way. This is why girls
in their 30’s date older men. An older man is indeed a sweetheart. Some of
them can lavish millions of dollars on you just by talking to them and making
them feel special.
3. OLDER
MEN CAN MAKE LIFE A LIVING HELL FOR YOU
Many young women in
their 20’s dating older men have been ruined. Some of these men are financial
and political giants. You don’t want to mess with them. The best thing to do is
to avoid dating them, if not, trade with caution. There are many girls who
could not settle happily in their marriage because of several escapades they
had with older men. They receive threats and blackmails by the day. Some girls
have lost their jobs, babies, and fiancé/husbands because of dating an older
man who is cruel.
4.
OLDER
MEN ARE ATTENTION LOVERS
What do you expect?
The man is old and getting older. Of cause, nothing gives him joy than spending
hours gisting, drinking, and laughing with someone who makes him really happy.
5.
YOU
CAN BE SET UP FOR LIFE
If he can be sure
your intention towards him is genuine, there is nothing he cannot do for you.
You just might be his next of kin or get coverage in his will which could leave
you with quite a fortune after his demise.
6.
NEVER
DATE AN OLDER MARRIED MAN
Older married men
in the first place don’t have any good intentions other than sex and flirting with you. Moreover, the danger involved is too high. In my post, “21ST-century types of dating that can ruin your life,” I enumerated the dangers associated with certain types of
dating. You might want to check it out.
PROS AND CONS OF DATING AN OLDER MAN
Dating an older man
is great. It has many good sides to it. However, there are also a ton of
negative sides as well.
Below are some of
the advantages and disadvantages of young women dating older men.
Advantages of dating an older man
- You can learn a lot by dating an experienced older man
- You get fatherly advice
- If he is an aristocrat, you are well on your way to mingle with people of high social class
- An older man can give you all the connection you will ever want
- An older man can establish you in business or recommend you for employment
- Dating older men can fine-tune your way of thinking and sense of reasoning
- Older men give really good care and show deep affections
- A love-struck older man can slip a ring on that finger. But be sure he is not already married
- A rich old man can help you out and get you out of your troubles by the links he has. He knows how to be your protector
- Older men know how to lavishly spend on the one they love and care about.
Disadvantages of dating an older man
- Dating an older man who is married can lead you into man troubles that he himself may not be able to help you
- It can lead to public stigmatization
- Dating an older man in your 20’s or so can make you unsettled when you have the need to. Many young men may not take you seriously as to marry you.
- Girls dating older men may revolve their entire life on the man forgetting that he is aging and sooner or later, things may not be the same again.
- A dangerous older man who competes for your love can really hurt those dare to you—your fiancé, relatives, friends whom you have chosen over him.
- Because we become who we associate with for long, your mentality and reasoning might change negatively just by dating an older man for a long time
- You may not be sexually satisfied which may lead to infidelity if you marry an older man.
- You may be forced to accept his proposal because you are afraid to turn him down after all he has done.
- An unreasonable old man may request you pay back all he has spent on you if you treat him badly.
- Most old men want to marry you, not for love sake but to keep close someone to take care of them in old age.
ADVICE FOR DATING OLDER MEN
Whether you are a
girl in your 20’s, 30’s or 40’s dating an older man, my candid advice is to be
real with your intentions. Old men hate fake and unrealistic women. They can
make life a living hell for you.
Don’t let him
release his emotions on you if you are not ready to take things
seriously. This can be very devastating because they can go at any length to
get what they want.
Finally, always
remember that older men are humans. They behave like babies so they need all
the pets, care, and attention. They can make great life partners, incredible
husbands, and sweet daddies.
If I could say a sentence to summarize all of these, I would say that, young women dating older men can be sweet, but on the flip side, they can also be very bitter.
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