How To Know When A Man Is A Player
But wait a second! Does that mean entering a relationship with
someone is a risk one has to take? Not at all. It is only as risky as one's
ignorance. You can always know if your man is playing if you do these five
things.
In case there is this cute guy you are crushing on and you can't wait to be
his woman. I sense danger! He could be a playboy. Don't rush things.
Take out time to find out if your crush is a player or not.
Here are 5 tricks to know if your boyfriend or crush is a player or
not:
- TOO AFFIRMING
When God created the woman, He designed her to be very emotional.
It's a good thing because it complements man's logical nature. However, a
woman's emotion seems to be her greatest challenge.
One big difference between emotion and logic is, emotions
don't reason, logics do. Women, for example, emotes and calculate only after
a damage is done. Men, on the other hand, calculate before they emote. This
is the reason they don't easily get hurt because they don't make rash
emotional decisions.
A woman's outrageous emotion is the reason even when it is glaring a
man is a player, most women can't see because emotions are blindfolds. They
hinder a woman through affections and stop her from seeing a man's true
intentions.
The primary way play guys hijack and control a woman's emotion
is through words. A good player understands that a woman's weak point is
affirmation.
He knows she desires to be told sweet things so he has it handy to offer.
Unfortunately, most women can differentiate between fake and true
affirmations.
There is a frequency of affirmation that is normal. But when a
guy affirms too much, virtually every time there is a conversation,
both on phone, physically, through text, or on social media, it could be a
sign a guy is playing you.
- TOO TOLERABLE
To know if a guy is a player or not, check his extent of
tolerance. If it's too less, you are in danger, and if it's too high he's
probably patient enough until he hit that jackpot:
great sex
with you or your money. If a guy is playing a lady,
he can be patient, pretentious and tolerable. This is one sign you should
look out for in a play guy and not confuse it with love or gentleness.
Take for instance, when a lady meets a guy and they start dating. As
long as the lady is not willing to have sex, he could tolerate all her
excesses and show her great love. But after they
begin to enjoy great sex, the care begins to drop. He starts being in charge, commanding and
controlling. At this point, he no longer cares about her emotional needs and
buying gifts.
- TOO GIVING
Another obvious way to tell if your boyfriend is a player is when he
gives too much, especially when he hasn't gotten what he wants.
Men are driven by logic. They don't just spend at liberty. Instead,
they think and reason out what their benefits would be before spending.
However, sex is one thing a man would die to have, even if it means
swiping that credit card.
When a guy you just met begins to provide virtually all you
ask for, don't conclude it's love yet. There could be a hidden intention.
One thing a smart woman can do is delay gratification. That means,
stand on your grounds of "no sex" and observe what happens. As you keep
resisting sex, his fake love will show.
- TOO INVITING
Another way to know if a guy is a player is when he is too INVITING.
"Inviting" is the first thing a player boyfriend would do. All men do
it so expect it.
Where else can the sex thing be done if not at home or in a hotel or
some kind of hideout?
On the first date with a guy, he won't invite you over. He
understands you will perceive his intentions. But after a while, say a week
or two, you'll get an invitation. A guy who is not a player will not be
pushy, he will allow you to decide. But for a play man, the push has
just begun. He'll do it in subtle ways like, buying you a gift and expecting
you to come over and take it. When you finally oblige to come, he will
seduce you with his attractive personality and sweet-talking.
- TOO HIDING
When next that phone rings and you enquire, he says,
"NOTHING," just know it's a pointer to the fact that he could be playing
you.
A player hides not just his phone. Even more, he will hide his
contacts, families, friends, and social media apps. Sometimes, he prevents
you from seeing his wardrobe. He could be hiding a woman's personal effects.
How to Know If a Guy is a Player Online
We have seen some of the physical signs that a guy is a player. When
a lady meets a guy for the first time, and they begin to date, in a matter
of few days, his attitudes and reactions will begin to communicate his
intentions. Because it involved a physical meeting, it becomes easier for a
woman to tell if a guy is a player.
But what if you meet a guy online through various virtual
platforms like Snapchat, Instagram or Facebook. How can a lady tell if
he is a play guy?
The easiest way to know a guy is a player online is through
words. How else can this be possible if not through the wisdom of
discernment?
If he's someone you have occasional physical contact with, you can
try to get hold of his phone and scheme through his chats. But this is not
the case. You've not seen each other physically. You probably don't even
know If the names and photos are real. Still, with wisdom, you can tell if a
guy is a player or a perfect gentleman.
Through wisdom, you can observe how a guy flirts with words. You will
also know the reason he picks so much interest in you. He probably viewed
your profile and saw how sexy you are and how immodest you dress so he
thinks you are a lump of cheap meat.
Signs Of a Play Man
Like I said above, men play women for generally two reasons:
sex or money. As long as a woman keeps sex from a man, he
will maintain his cool. But after a series of rounds, his true colours begin
to unfold.
Also, when a man knows a lady is wealthy, he will do virtually all
she asks for. He'll play the fool for as long as he can until he swindles
her and then takes off.
Some major Signs a man is a player and does not really like you
are:
- When he begins to treat you like shit only after you begin having sex with him.
- He talks to you disrespectfully.
- He annoys you on purpose because he wants you to initiate a break
- He's no longer afraid of losing you.
- When he doesn't hide his phone anymore because he no longer cares if you find out his many escapades.
- He emotionally blackmails you whenever he wants something from you.
- He becomes selfish and uncaring. No longer buys gifts for you.
- Special events like birthdays no longer matter to him.
- Everything you do now annoys him.
- He doesn't take you out on dates as he used to.
SUMMARY
A relationship is a whole deal of hard work. From the first day a lady meets
a guy, she begins to fret, which leads her to keep asking if the guy is a
player or not.
If you take time as a woman to consider the man's behaviour with a
great deal of observation, in a matter of time, you would determine if his
intentions are genuine or not.
On the other hand, if he is someone you met online, you might want to use
your God-giving wisdom to decode the real intentions behind the chats.
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