What A Woman Wants In A Man
Let me start by saying that what a woman wants in a man can be very complex. It takes a great deal of communication and understanding to decipher.
Impressing a woman is one of the most difficult things to
do. And this is because; you don’t even know what she needs even though
you think you do. Today you give her money, and tomorrow
she cheats on you. When you enquire why, she says, " He buys me flowers and constantly
affirms me which you don't." Even when you try to adjust, she comes up
with new desires.
In this article, I have revealed some of the things a woman wants from a
guy in a relationship. If you can capture her needs in this area and
satisfy them, you will
easily win her heart even if she is stubborn.
Why is My wife or lady Unsatisfied?
A woman can be unsatisfied for a variety of reasons. For instance, a lot
of men who think they’ve got the swag or what it takes to impress a lady
end up in women’s list of ex’s because they lack understanding. While
those with little or no swag but understand
how to make a relationship last, eventually are those who enjoy peaceful marriage relationships. This is
ironic. Isn’t it? This means not showing empathy and understanding can
make a woman dissatisfied.
Many men also think money, comfort and handsomeness are what satisfy
women. This is a huge misconception. In the long run, money, swag or good
looks won't make a woman happy but the emotional satisfaction she gets
from the bond you share with her. This is because women in general derive
a sense of satisfaction from the emotional investments you make in the
relationship.
What most men don’t realize is that more preferably, women
are interested in a man who meets their emotional needs and who show deep
commitment than one with just swag, good looks, and money.
Character is another thing both men and women look out for
in a relationship to feel fulfilled. No matter how irresponsible
people are, they desire to end up with responsible people and this is
because nobody likes being cheated on.
Below are Some of the major things a woman craves for in a man;
- FILL HER LOVE TANK AND MAKE SACRIFICES
This is the first thing that virtually every woman looks for in a
relationship.
People think love is overrated. Some think that love is money. They say
as long as you can provide for her needs, you can keep her forever. You
may succeed to sustain a relationship this way, but will she be happy in
the long run?
A woman may say I can’t marry a poor man, but no woman will deny the fact
that money is not everything.
No matter how well you satisfy a woman in other areas, if you don’t fill
her emotional love tank, she will never be fulfilled. And it takes more
than just being in a relationship to fill this tank. It takes sacrifice.
Sacrifice is the greatest form of love and it is one of the primary things
every woman desires in her man.
How can you fill this love tank and show her you care? Spend quality time
with her, engage in effective communication, go out of your way to make
her happy sometimes.
- BE A HARD MAN
Being feminine is one thing no woman craves for in her man.
While a woman would naturally love a man who loves and sacrifices for
her, she also doesn’t want a man she can control at will. No woman wants a
dummy or a doormat as a man.
A man who puts a woman in her place and displays some level of
stubbornness when necessary will always be respected and regarded.
As a man, you must not agree with everything she says or go by all her
suggestions all in the name of love. Sometimes, she wants you to refute
her needs especially when they are unreasonable. Women love logical men,
not men who are excessively emotional.
While you show them you really love and care, when it’s time to be mildly
hard on them, do it and don't over pamper them.
I once dated a lady who told me she wanted to go for a certain meeting. I
disagreed and insisted she stays back. As we got into the car back home,
she texted me saying, “I love it when you put me in my place and insist on certain things.”
Don’t get me wrong as a man. I’m not in any way suggesting dictatorship
or authoritarianism. All I am saying is that the malefactor has to be in
place sometimes because it attracts great admiration from a woman.
- BE A PROTECTION AND CORRECTION LEADER
Being a "Protection and correction leader" cannot be precluded in the list of things a woman needs in a man. This one makes a woman feel honoured. When you always protect your woman, she can go anywhere spreading her legs and hands as if she owns the streets.
Never humiliate your woman in public even if she is at fault. I’m not
saying you should support her misbehaviours. Don’t just give her the
impression you are taking sides with her opponent. Instead, point
out her faults in private and let her know and adjust accordingly.
Among the many things a woman wants in her man or husband are protection
and respect. Every woman looks out for this in a man.
- INTENTIONALLY UNDERSTAND HER
One of a woman's greatest desires is an understanding man because many
men are not understanding. Their ego always gets in the way of their
reasoning.
Let me say this will all boldness. You will begin to lose your woman if
another man begins to understand her better than you do. Firstly,
they will provide a comfortable shoulder for her to lean on, and finally,
they will take her away from you.
Women crave men who always engage them in a heart to heart communication.
This is so paramount if a relationship must be sustained.
Effective communication birth understanding. It is one of the key
attributes a woman wants in a man.
- INVEST IN HER NICHE
If your woman is one of such resourceful women, let them know you care
about their dreams and that you are ready to support them by all means. We
don’t have too many men who do this. Being on the list of the very few who
do, will score you a pretty good point in her heart.
Many men struggling to win a woman's heart are not even
aware that being a supportive man could be what she is looking out
for.
- BE FUN-FILLED
Everybody needs somebody who is fun to be with. Women are no exception.
They desire a man who knows how to light up and brighten the entire
atmosphere. So don’t be boring as a man.
Add life and light to the relationship.
One thing I know how to do is to switch moods. You can never be
sad in my presence. This is something every man must strive for.
Women are like candles, men must therefore become the fire that keeps the
candle burning and sparking in unending happiness.
You can easily be the kind of man every woman wants or desire to marry if
you have this one attribute because women are naturally fun lovers.
What Does A Woman Want In A Man Physically?
A man's physical attractiveness is different from a woman's. For the most
part, a woman feels safe and secure with the things you tell her thank the
things she sees as physical qualities. This is why a man's physical
attraction is not much of a craving for women as a great affirmation. I
have seen many beautiful women who ended up with men who are not
physically appealing. This is not to say that women can't be attracted by
a man's physical looks.
Features like height, body built, nice eyes, crispy voice and how a
man walks can physically attract a woman to a man. Some of these features
are the physical attributes a woman wants from a man. However,
individual differences matter also. For instance, Some women may prefer
plumpy men, while others may like skinny men. Some surprisingly want a
short man while others may desire tall men.
What Are The Top 5 Things A Woman Looks For In A Man?
Though we've seen all the things that trigger a woman's fancy, not
all are in the top five list. There are more special qualities that make a
woman crave a man. These qualities are not random picks, the majority of
them are derived from interviews with women when asked, "What qualities
would you want in a man?"
Based on personal interviews, most women mention the
following as their top five needs.
- Affection
- Quality time
- Respect
- Fun and liveliness
- Faithfulness.
What Attracts A Woman To A Man At First Sight?
At first sight, a guy's physical look is what attracts a woman. However,
looks do not matter to a woman as much as what you say to her. This is
because women are emotional feelers. They interpret the words you say
through their emotional filters. This means whether you are handsome or
not, speaking abusive words can make a woman resent you.
Generally, when a woman looks at a man the first thing she begins to
admire is his facial beauty and body figure. However, in the long run,
these things don't matter that much anymore. She begins to crave for
something of lasting value in the man. Things like character, commitment,
affection, intelligence, God-fearing, integrity and carriage will become
her primary desire.
Aside from facial beauty and physique, a man's cute smiles and sexy
eyes are other things that attract women. Also, a fun lover who is
humourous has additional tools to his advantage.
What do ladies Think Is Unattractive?
While there is a myriad of qualities a woman wants in a man, there are
those she may find unattractive as well. Even though these qualities may
vary from woman to woman, some are generic.
Most ladies think a man's pot belly is unattractive. Some women think
that even if a man has a six-pack, his voice texture or the way he speaks
can be unattractive. More so, some say that a man could still have a
six-pack and great vocal texture with unattractive body carriage or
movement. No one has it all. It all balls down to commitment whether you
find something unattractive or not.
Take Away Quote
You will never make a woman happy until you understand her completely.
You will begin to lose your woman if another man begins to understand her
better than you do.
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