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Thursday, August 6, 2020

4 MOST EFFECTIVE KEYS TO A LASTING MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP



There are 4 keys to a lasting marriage you didn't know exist, and I believe the absence of these keys is the reason many marriages are failing. Some have even dared to end in divorce.

In one of my posts, I talked about how to win a man’s heart for marriage. In this post, I’ll be talking about how to make your marriage relationship last. Is this not what you want for your marriage? 

I want to disclose hidden secrets that sustain a marriage relationship forever which for the most part, married couples don’t know about.

The principle that guides this subject is the principle of sustenance. While we have accessed a few characters that won you your marriage ticket, there are additional characters that will sustain your marriage.


Often times marriages end in divorce after a big fight or unbelievable behavior or hidden secrets that were discovered in the course of time. 

All these big disappointments or unbelievable revelations are not the major causes of divorce. 

They are the manifested fruits of the cultivated seeds. The seeds are the root causes of divorce and sometimes it is so insignificant to the extent it becomes very easy to neglect. 

 Such negligence is antithetic to making a relationship last.
HOW TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE LAST LONG

I have discovered that nothing destroys marriage relationships like negligence of the little things that you think no more count. Yet these are areas Satan never neglects. He strikes at every slightest opportunity and magnifies his footholds into strongholds.


If therefore you want to make your marriage better and stand the test of time, pay close attention to those things you think never mattered or no more matter. 



Some of the things couples need to do which I discover are the four most effective keys to a lasting marriage relationship are:


1           1.  Take Some Jokey Comments Seriously 

  Have you ever attempted to let your spouse know about an attitude of his that you don’t like but just couldn’t because you didn’t know how he would feel? but on one of those jokes with him, you slipped it in, in a subtle kind of way that makes everything seems like a joke meanwhile you were serious.  If this is the case with you, you need to start being open if you must enjoy a last-longing marriage.

I believe It is better to hurt someone with the truth than to console that person with a lie.

I have seen many couples say things like “But I thought you were joking” and that is because you slip in critical issues that call for serious discussion in between jokes. 


I discovered that most couples would rather discuss issues eating them up in their marriage with their friends and relatives and joke about it with their spouse all because they don’t want to hurt their feelings.

 This is where married couples get it all wrong. Marriage is not a bed of roses. You must break up to make up, disagree to agree, and in rare cases hate to love. In fact when all is fine with your marriage all the time, then someone may be keeping secret and that alone is enough damage. 

     2. Have a Single’s Mentality


   This is very crucial. To make your marriage last, you have to keep thinking like a single. The day you start thinking like the married, you’ll begin to set unnecessary limits that will take the fun out of your marriage. 

Singles do things with little or no restriction so don’t cage your wife or husband. She/he is not a slave.  Take her to the park, mall, vacations, and excursions. Buy her flowers and be romantic at all times. Still do things you did when you two were seeking each other’s attention at first. Exercise to keep that body in shape and dress smartly.

I believe that by doing even more in marriage, the things you did as singles will greatly improve the quality of your marriage.


Sometimes the responsibility with kids can be a deterrent to acting like a single, but no matter how hard it is, never stop treating each other like the prince charming and princess charming who swept you off your feet years ago. 

Acting like the married and thinking like the single is another key to a lasting marriage relationship.

HOW TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE WORK AND LAST



3.  Respect And Love


No matter the level of friendship you build into your marriage or how well you guys joke about many things if respect and love start lacking the man and the woman will begin to notice respectively. 


While a man is very swift to notice a lack of respect from his wife the wife notices a lack of love from the husband. These two ingredients add their little quota to sustaining a marriage. 

As human beings, we were never designed to survive where peace is lacking. Though we may pass through tough times in life, our end goal is to live a life full of peace.

Argument, resentment, and lack of peace are some of the signs that love and respect are displaced in a relationship and can work against a lasting marriage relationship.


       4.  Guard Your Heart


God admonishes Christians to mount a guard on their heart because out of it flows the issues of life. 

Well, marriage is one of the most vital issues of life, and as such demands that every married couple must mind who they run for advice.  

More damages have been done to marriages because of wrong advice from clergies, parents, and so-called friends than it is by any other means. 

 Couples should be friendly and mature enough to sort out their issues first no matter the severity.  

Consulting a third party should be a unanimous agreement and must be done with wisdom because sometimes people you run to for advice are those who really need one themselves. 


There is no way you will guard your heart against negative minded and jealous people without enjoying a long-lasting marriage. 


      Take Away Quote

As you prepare for the person God is preparing for you, you must also prepare for a lasting marriage experience. Marriage can be made in heaven but can be destroyed when mismanaged.


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