8 Ways Christmas In 2020 Will Affect Marriages & Relationships| Relationship Tips For Guidance

 Not just you my dear friends! I can perceive the sweet splendor around the corner; Electric lights are turned off and candlesticks (White and red) take the center stage as I can see so many people both good and bad stocking up red, white, and green attires, traveling home with huge smiles in anticipation of a series of mysterious and yet eventful days —Christmas in 2020 to celebrate with loved ones, family, and friends.

I said "mysterious" because 2020 Christmas will be a shocker. It may turn out to be a day that would come and go leaving many people happy and whole other people very sad.

A lot has happened this year which is why this year’s Christmas day will be something the world has never seen before.

However, this article is meant to prepare you ahead of time so that your relationship or marriage won’t fall victim to this year’s rampaging Christmas. You can still with wisdom, enjoy the 10 cool and fun things special and daring people do on Christmas.

The 8 certain things that can happen this year  to really impact negatively on marriages and relationships are;

  1.A CUT-SHORT EXPECTATION

A few years ago she brought her Christmas list of items; every item in it and even more were provided. All her expectations were literary met and smiles were all over her face. Just when she thought 2020 would be something splendid and more promising, a deadly pandemic shows up. Now all her expectations are over. She is afraid of missing out on the fun that happens on Christmas day. She has become so desperate that her next line of action is another richer fellow who would make her dreams come through. She is left with 3 options now (a) Understanding (b) Infidelity or (c) It is over between us. 

Before you make this mistake, I have already told you about it. You can either chose to retrace your decisions and be happy or break up with the love of your life in search of a wealthy fellow and be sad. Money is not everything but genuine love that flows from the right heart. Make your relationship or marriage last.

   2. A DEAD END RELATIONSHIP

Christmas in 2020 may turn a diehard relationship into a dead-end one.

From the beginning of the year, couples, lovers, and people who share deep connections and intimacy I believe made a lot of sweet resolutions about diverse ways they can realize their fantasies. They probably made plans to globetrot,  buy a brand new car for a loved one, or build a house for their lovers. Such intimacy and joy usually seem so real that you would never have imagined that the peak of 2020 would put an end to such a relationship.

The good news is, now that you are aware, you can choose to make the right choice. Inability to fulfill a promise doesn't have to kill the relationship. It should instead create hope, birth better plans, and stair unity for a better 2021 experience.

   3.YET ANOTHER CLAIM BY CORONA

Even though the world is defeating the pandemic gradually, some of it is still lurking around seeking whom to devour. Christmas just might be its best opportunity to strike one more.

You may be asking what I mean by that. The fact is, during the celebration period, there is an unusual hike in intimacy and romantic involvements. Lovers spend a lot of time together and in the course of that, many things can happen. Being always close alone can distribute The virus talk more of being romantically involved. All these acts are Corona-virus-friendly, a reason many relationships especially those with trust issues may collapse.

Mind who you kiss and trust no one. If you are a cheat or a playgirl, watch it. Hell is extending an arm of invitation. Don’t accept it.

  4.  AN ULTIMATUM TO MARRY

After the whole heat of 2020 comes to an end, 2021 will be a year where many people especially women would want to relax.  The girls would be so tired of life that all they would begin to imagine is to be called a wife. They need to relax in a place they can call their home. If she was a playgirl, now she is tired because 2020 was a whole lot of hell. She didn’t make as much money in 2020 as she had always made in previous years. Now she is tired of this life and wants to settle.  

In a bid to achieve her aim of being a wife, the man will receive an ultimatum to marry her. If he fails, she will walk away in 2021. She wants to settle now because she is afraid of the stress and difficulties that may accompany 2021 so she needs the support of someone she can call a husband.

5. A REDUCED SEXUAL INVOLVEMENT

The fear of COVID-19 is still around the corner. Lovers, Married couples, the engaged still don’t trust the health condition of each other. As a result, kissing and sex may be greatly affected in Christmas in 2020.

For those lucky couples who have taken time to build trust and intimacy, Christmas Holiday can be the best time to enjoy the 5 types of sex every partner desires.

  6. AN INCREASED THEFT

Are you a married couple, lovers, intending couples, newlyweds who want to enjoy 2020 Christmas celebrations? then you have to be very careful. Be extra cautious this year because any little theft and stealing of your property can ruin your Christmas plans.

Don’t take your Christmas money home or move around with it. The bank is safe. Leave it there and withdraw in bits when necessary if you want to enjoy your Christmas day.

Remember that bad boys didn’t make a lot of money this year due to the economic wreck caused by the pandemic so all their eyes are on your little money saved up for Christmas.

  7. A DISPLAY OF REAL CHARACTER

Last year your needs were met so your real character was still hidden though very much intact and alive. 

Unfortunately, Christmas in 2020 came like a shocker. Covid-19 has destroyed a lot, now your needs can’t be met and your true character has emerged. 

You woke up one morning with anger and you said the relationship is over. He is no more your man; she is no more your woman. You now have found another victim who would compensate for your insatiable desires. You think the needs of your Christmas day will now be met, little did you know that you are inviting another disappointment. 

     8. A TEMPTATION TO BACKSLIDE

You probably have been praying to what you believe in; to God, gods, Buddha, etc. from January only to get to December and you can’t seem to find what you have been praying for. You now begin to ask, is the pandemic greater than my god or God? You no longer have the zeal to flip through some Christmas bible verses or Christmas verses in Quran or whatever book you believe in.

All these tight-spot is able enough to shake you if you are not rigid in your faith.

If you are a Christian, the pandemic is certainly not greater than your God. He is almighty and knows what we don’t know, sees what we cannot see, and can always provide tangible reasons for His actions so don’t backslide, don’t give up. God has better plans for you come 2021. 

But if you belong to other religions, then the pandemic is sure greater than your religion. You might want to serve the true living Jehovah.

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