11 Top Secrets For A Fulfilled Single Life: How To Enjoy Being Single

 

The worst mistake anyone can make is to mingle without being adequately single first. I personally believe that single life is a gift from God—a kind of gift from a loving father who wants his child to discover purpose, self-awareness, self-fulfillment, and wholeness first, which act as necessary cushions against the many mental and emotional troubles of relationships.

Being single is not just an opportunity to explore and discover. It is also wrapped up with an incredible chance to get to know the single most important human in your life; yourself.

I am fully aware that you are single and ready to mingle but until you read this article I have written  especially for you, you may be making the greatest mistake of your life.

Whether you are a single man or a single woman, a young single lady or a single guy, or even a teenager, everyone is saddled with a function—the function to truly attain a significant state of personal fulfillment and completion without the need to depend on others for satisfaction.

Here are 11 way to make the most out of your single life.

1. TEACH YOURSELF HOW TO BE ALONE.

Though being single is an interesting phase of one’s life, it can be a hard thing to do as well.  It is a phase where the biological hormones that stimulate and drive most of our actions are very active, as a result, has left us with a lot of choices to make.

In such a case, one of the best choices any single can make in spite of the hormonal drives is to learn to be alone and derive all satisfaction from within.

The worst mistake you can make as a single is to become so incomplete and insignificant that you enter into a relationship depending on your partner for virtually everything in other to compensate for your feeling of inferiority and vulnerability only because you have not learned how to be alone, yet complete and fulfilled.

Therefore, learning how to be single and happy, and depending on your own advice, thoughts, and decisions can be a smart thing to do as a single and a great way to start building an impeccable single life.

2. BE UNSCRIPTED.

There are things you can’t do spontaneously if you were married or in a relationship. You have to consult your significant other.

Hurray! Here is a whopping opportunity to do as you please because the only feeling that truly counts now is yours.

Understand that, even if being spontaneous has a downside, it has a lot of advantages as well. I know of singles that have ventured into many productive things and are successful without having to consult people who would’ve discouraged them.

When you are spontaneous, you tend to be more responsible for your actions and the outcomes of your decisions.

3.BUILD FRIENDSHIP AND SPEND TIME WITH PEOPLE THAT MATTER.

Singleness is a delicate phase of life. Even though mistakes are inevitable, you can’t afford the damage that comes with grievous ones. There are people who are still single by 30 or even above 30 only because they spent time with the wrong people in their yesteryears.

As you navigate through life, you have the chance to meet a lot of people and spend your time with them including family members. In any case, you must strive to spend most of your time with the right people.

 This is why discovering your life’s purpose, goal or dream, and spending most of your time with those that can help you achieve them can be a good consideration.

4. MAKE OUT TIME TO TRAVEL.

If you’re not married, you are not ready to be in any relationship, and you certainly do not have any child, what are you then doing with your single life in one place? Go out and explore. Have fun, come face to face with new experiences, and meet new people.

Sometimes those you are even closest to, may not be the once God has assigned to bring that ONE BIG BREAKTHROUGH into your life but someone you met on one of your trips.

5. DISCOVER YOUR PASSION

There is no one who does not have at least a passion for a thing. Find it and leverage on it now that you have all the time as a single. 

Even if you are single at 30 or above 30 and ready to mingle, you can still discover that untapped side of you and serve it to the world. Most singles by doing this have ended up with the right life partner.

 

6. CREATE A PERSONAL LIBRARY.

“I can’t pursue a masters degree now”, “I have my eyes on the managerial position in my company but I can’t just make out time to read and prepare for a professional exam”, “ I would have been the best in my field but I am too distracted to study now”, “ This is my chance to start my own business but I can’t just take a business course now” Why can’t you do all these? I have a family to cater for, bills to pay, workplace demands, wife’s emotional needs to satisfy, and a lot of distractions at home.

As long as you abused the purpose of the library as a single, all these excuses are flimsy.

You must learn to read your books as a single person enjoying a single life. You can start deciding the fate of your future by reading today. 

Whether it is academic books, books about business or those in line with your life’s goal or purpose, start reading them today until you rip off every opportunity to give excuses tomorrow. 

7. WORK HARD AND WORK SMART

Work hard and work smart. This is your only chance. Don’t allow poverty's acquaintances with you in old age. 

Someone once said, “Work hard until it hurts because poverty hurts even more”

Working hard means being able to venture into a couple of things because you have the energy and will power to. On the other hand, to work smart, you have to gather your skills, intellects, wisdom, and discretion all in one place—your head.

 

8. EVALUATE YOUR LIFE

No doubt, you will suck at times, you will make mistakes in your single life, you will make the wrong decisions that may not just affect only you but your families as well, settle these in your head.

While you probably have made all of these mistakes, you may also want to know that an even bigger mistake is when you fail to evaluate your actions and decisions.

When something doesn’t turn out as planned, strive to know why, learn from your mistakes and make room for improvements. 

9. ACHIEVE YOUR FANTASIES

Living a single life comes with a lot of imaginative power. There are many fantasies in your head on schedule to be achieved before a certain age or phase in life. The good news is, because you are single, you are most liable to achieve them.

Do you have new hobbies you want to learn, a list of places you want to visit, a skill you want to learn, a song you want to write, or a movie you want to act? Whatever adventurous thought you have in your head, you can achieve all by the power of your singleness.

10. EMBRACE OPPORTUNITIES

With the tremendous amount of energy you possess as single and the will power to venture into many things, you should never say no to opportunities no matter how small or big they are. But bear in mind, they must be legitimate opportunities.

Taking advantage of opportunities that come your way can open up great doors sooner than you think.

 

11. BE OPEN TO POSSIBILITIES.

Don’t put your single life on the hold and wish away time, waiting for when the luck of marriage would smile on you. Even if you’re single by 30 or single and ready to mingle you have to take things slow and put your life out there.

Make yourself open to possibilities and be ready to embrace anything. There is no better time to do this than now.

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